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What Have I Been Up To?

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Hey everyone! Welcome back…..or I really should welcome myself back, but YES I am back. As you can see, the last time I uploaded a post was well over a year ago. Things have gotten a little crazy since that last post. I found out I was pregnant with my SECOND SON!  Already raising a little one while being pregnant became extremely exhausting for me. I went through a period where I had very little motivation, but all of that changed when I got a job as a preschool teacher while I was 7 months! I know, crazy right?! OK, so let’s go on ahead and fast forward. My oldest son, Christian, is 19 months (1 year & 7 months),  and my youngest, Gabriel, is 7 months. Continue reading “What Have I Been Up To?”

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Bibs Away! | Christian’s Reflux Journey

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Since Christian was born, he has always spat up after his feeds, sometimes more than others. During his 2 week check up appointment, I mentioned it to his pediatrician, but he said there was nothing to worry about and that it was completely normal. Although his pediatrician tried reassuring me that everything was okay, I knew that something was wrong (enters maternal instinct). After several more doctor and hospital visits, Christian was diagnosed with gastroesophogeal reflux.

For those of you who don’t know what gastroesophogeal reflux, better known as acid reflux in babies, it’s basically when a baby spits up consistently, especially after feeds, and this is due to an immature digestive track. Some cases of acid reflux are more severe than others, but fortunately most babies grow out of it. Some symptoms of acid reflux include: frequent vomiting, refusing to eat, persistent coughing, fussiness after a feeding, gas, or belly pain.

Christian’s reflux is a little more on the severe side, and when I tell you all that Christian goes through bibs, HE GOES THROUGH BIBS. He literally soaks his bibs because he spits up so much. Sometimes it looks like he spits up his entire feed, but multiple doctors and pediatricians have reassured my husband and I that it may look like he is spitting up everything he just obtained, but he isn’t (looks can be deceiving).  And the irony of it all is that he is still happy. Instead of being fussy, he actually smiles while he is spitting up.

These are some of the things I do to help soothe Christian:

  • I start off by putting oatmeal cereal in EVERY bottle for Christian. This helps to weigh the milk down which prevents a lot of regurgitation. I prefer oatmeal cereal over rice cereal because based off of previous experience, Christian was very constipated when he would drink with the rice cereal.
  • I always make sure that I have Christian sitting up while I feed him. I used to lay him down in my arms while feeding him, but I noticed he was spitting up a lot more. Although he still spits up after sitting him up, it is nowhere near as much as when I used to lay him down and feed him.
  • You always have to burp your child after the feeding regardless if they have acid reflux or not, but since Christian has acid reflux,  I try to burp him every 1-2 ounces of milk he has taken. Now of course you won’t have to burp your baby for the rest of their infant life, but it is important to do it for the first six months at least.
  • After Christian’s feeding, I make sure to sit him up for a minimum of 30 minutes. It’s the same for adults with heartburn: you have to let the food you intake digest, and if you lay down immediately after you eat, you will experience heartburn.
  • Since the pediatrician was able to diagnose Christian, he was able to prescribe him the right medicine which made a HUGE difference in the amount he was spitting up.

Before diagnosing your baby yourself, make sure to set up an appointment with their pediatrician, and that way they can give you steps towards soothing your child a little more.

 

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The Adventures of Being A New Mom Part 1

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I will never forget the funniest yet most terrifying moment for me as a new mother:

On the third night in the hospital with my newborn son, I was alone for the first time since giving birth. I was already extremely nervous because I was a new mom and I didn’t want anyone to leave me alone, but unfortunately my husband had to leave for work until 12 AM. I had to suck it up, take a deep breath, and embrace and realize that I am a mother now, and I had to remind myself that this will be a learning experience. Yes, I could have taken Christian to the hospital nursery, but I really wanted to take advantage of this alone time with my son, and so I did. As the night continued on, it was time for Christian’s next feed. I did what the nurses had shown me to do; feed him and burp him after. I was watching the TV while cradling him, and all of a sudden I felt something warm in my bra. I look down to see what it was, and what do you know: spit up. As soon as I took a deep breath, Christian started spitting up again, and it was going EVERYWHERE. And what do you know now….he just got finished pooping, or at least I thought he was finished. I went to lay Christian down in the little mobile crib so I could change his diaper, and boy when I opened that diaper there was nothing but brown liquid (sorry if you’re getting a little queasy, but I’m just being honest). I finished cleaning him up, and next thing I know he starts pooping again! It was literally pouring out and getting all over the crib, and to top it all of he started peeing on me and all over himself (including his precious little face). I was taking extremely deep breaths, trying my absolute best to remain calm…..until Christian started spitting up again and gasping for air, and that was my breaking point. I snatched him up so fast and started patting his back and next thing you know I’m running out to the hallway (did I mention I didn’t bother putting a onesie let alone a diaper back on him??) and I am crying and breaking down in front of a nurse, and I couldn’t even get words out of my mouth.

After the nurse helped me out and calmed me down, she reassured me that all of the things that were happening that night were completely normal, and as a new mother it is not expected that I know everything. Before she told me those things, I felt so much pressure about being the perfect parent and doing everything absolutely right. So after hearing her comforting words, my spirit was lifted, and there wasn’t so much weight on my shoulders anymore. I believe at that moment, I fell more in love with Christian and in love with myself as not only becoming a mother, but becoming his mother, but if there is one more thing that I can be 110% honest with all of you about….motherhood is no joke.

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Cheers to 3 months!

Wow, time has flown by! From giving birth to my precious baby boy on June 12, 2016 to now, Christian has finally reached 3 months! He is still as happy as can be; constantly smiling, squealing, and giving big, fat, sloppy kisses (or he is probably just trying to eat my face off). He has learned to roll over and hold his head up while laying flat on his stomach. He has learned the art of kicking (sometimes a little too hard), and he loves putting everything in his mouth; bibs, blankets, pacifier straps, his fingers, and he even tries to put my entire hand in his mouth too! He sleeps through the night and almost always wakes up smiling and baby cooing…..A LOT. Happy 3 months Christian!

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